What Have You Done
to You?

What is the meaning of life to you? the answer could come in various ways depending on your point of view. You are living a life on your own way, your acts, reacts, talks, especialy face makes you diffrent from other lives like animals, fishes, plants.

When I tried to find out the defenition of 'Life' I found that life is the aspect of existence that processes, acts, reacts, evaluates and evolves through growth (reproduction and metabolism). It is a condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter. This is a sciencetific defenition you know, but the word 'science' was created by a man, man gives the name to justify whatever happening around. But if I ask about the life of human, the answer differs a lot, so much more.

Applying the given scientific definition, if I now justify myself, I do follow processes to do works whatever it is. I act, I react, evaluate, evolve, everything what a living thing does, there is one thing what makes me different is my thoughts with a unique body structure. I can feel the importance of everything around, I do care.

So, the definition of human life depends on each and every people around, every man or woman has his or her own ways to live. This is the thing I'm trying to make you understand. There only some common issues what make humans to live together, among them food and shelter are most importants, others are family, freiendship, profession etc. Human likes to live with a family, eat together, sleep together and care for each other.

It takes just a matter of time when you found something suitable and not harmful anyway, you try to achive that. And here becomes the reason to write this article.

A natural behaviour of a human is to have the things found necessary, depending on ability. You go to a super-market to by clothes, to office to work, you do travel in natural places for refreshment, entertainment. When you go to a restaurant you look for your favourite meals and try to hide bad things from kids.

All these important things diverts you to chose a possible way to earn, because human being fixed the process 'Earning' before, for a better management how live's going on. This is one the most important turning points in someone's life, because your chosen way to earn influence your personal living, that become positive sometimes, and sometimes negetive. It takes time to understand the negetive reactions from others. Is it wise to wait for a bad experience?

I saw peoples choosing their way of life depending on some common needs like watching TV, perticipating cultural events, metting family programs and friends. For example if you want to buy a TV that costs more than 1,000 us dollar, you need to have the capabilities to earn and expense that money. Reallity comes then when someone discuss the matter with him/herself about what to do. Choosing shortcut is smartness but need to be concentrated about it's acceptance.

When you found nothing to do to solve the problems, you become angry and sometimes you can control it and sometimes not. The difference between Expectations and Receiptions change your behaviours. You start misbehaving with your families, relatives a little, and then big or nothing. Everything depends on your self-realization. What you should do actually. The best way to get recover is making yourself busy with anything you like most, try spending more times with family and working in places where you will not be alone. It is very important, because have only one limited life to live and at the end you want to be a happy.

_If you believe that it will be a madness to touch a fire when you know that it will make your hurt, you will be burned, Then why do you let yourself destroy being a fool, by taking wrong decessions.

I saw peoples how they were ruining themselves, Think, someone comes to you and raise your faith, and then leave making losses to you. Do you prefer to be a 'someone' like that ? Just a simple thing dear, everyone has own choices like you, and also have their own way, of you want to be a part of that you have to keep the dignity for both, only key to succeed.

_And when a moonlit night comes to you, and you feel alone, and think if everything could be changed! Why you can not be changed? what have you done to you.

When you were a child you did not fear from others because you believed that no one there to hurt. In a word you were living in a friendly environment and why is that? Because they also believed that you were not harmful to them. The moment you lost this faith that was the turning poit of your life, start up of getting away from the light of life.

_May be they have done something bad to you but it is more important what did you do?

Wel you can not trust them but why don't they? Earning trust from others is the key to be a happy, easiest way if you could believe. All these were only to make you satisfied, and what is this satisfacion? all for what? easy questions to solve all your problems if you trust.

There a millions of reasons to make you looser, but only one reason that could make you a winner is your wish to live like n man.

Another important thing is someone's past years, sometimes past become inspirable and sometimes it creats coarsensess. The moments when someone think about past, influence ongoing works and intentions weakly or strongly. I found some words like the ultimate purpose of human life is to self-realize. No need to change demeanour, the way to look, dress, speak, and change lifestyles to achieve it.

The ultimate fate of humanity is to become extinct that could happen in many ways and we are not sure when will it happen. So, remember the word, It is you, who desire the best for you.

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